yawn

so on to date four with shifty eyes. when i arrive at the restaurant (the requisite 1-2 minutes after the said time), i do not see him outside. i wait around for a little bit, but then i decide to just take a peek inside. and i see him at a table. is this as weird to anyone else as it seems to me? don't you wait for your date before seating yourself? oh well, i enter the restaurant. the dinner is good, and this time he pays (which he indicates that he is going to do since he planned the evening this time.)

may i describe the outfit? now i know that this particular thing can be helped...but...oh my. pleated light khaki corduroys with a sweater tucked in. ?? and a his fedora that frankly looks too small since it sits so high on his head. i mean, i actually really like hats, but this one, i'm not too sure. and the worst thing is that i think he really made an effort.

ok, clothing aside, the evening is mostly enjoyable. we go to harvey's comedy club, which was funny. it was not funny, however, when he was talking loudly about how he could be a stand up comedian or at least write for one, and the whole line waiting for the club was giving him dirty looks. doesn't everyone like a comedian that tells intelligent (slightly pretentious) jokes that are higher brow than most of the crowd? um...at this point i'm just hoping no one tries to kick his ass. anyway, the show was funny, several drinks are downed, and he asks if he can kiss me goodnight. i tell him that i'm feeling a bit indecisive, but he goes for it. and to be honest, i'm still feeling quite indecisive. i was hoping that this 4th date would help me determine the side of the fence on which i'm residing, but it didn't. *sigh*